I just found out that my wife of 12 years was sexting with my brother of all people. He is married but we all knew he was a cheater and unhappy. I thought my wife was faithful and in a happy marriage. I am also looking for some real advice. I would have just said goodbye and left if we didn't have a daughter. She is 2 years old and the best thing in my life. I look foreword to coming home from work and seeing her everyday. How can I leave my wife when it means I will be losing time with my daughter?

Did you talk to either your wife, or brother about this bad behavior? That's where it starts, by talking because there has to be something you missed here. I don't know how long this has been going on, but being angry is understandable, but you don't have to be impulsive.

Maybe a calm talk will reveal some better facts to make a decision from.