I've recently broke up wit my boyfriend because of ah conversation he had about me to his ex... he was really disrespecting me... he called me names dirty names... and he's still in love with his ex... that's what he told me... but its hard to stop thinking about him... he keeps calling my phone asking for another chance but the thing is I met this great guy,n its all confusing,cause if I did'nt meet this guy I would have probably give my ex boyfriend another chance... rite now am confused... need help

Your ex is a pig. He disrespected you and has told you he still is in love with his ex. What do you need to happen to figure out that you shouldn't be with someone like that?

Move on. Forget him.

Why would you give a guy who disrespected you, called you names, and still thinks of his ex a second chance?

And why would you do the same thing to a new guy, that your ex has done to you? Getting with someone else before he stop thinking of the ex. It wasn't fair to you when he did it, and its not for to a new guy if you do it, so don't.

Let the dust settle on the ex before you jump from one guy to another. Then you won't be confused.

Why are you worried about him?
When you found a great guy?

Don't rebound BTW. You're not ready.

There's a couple things here. You getting with a guy that's hung up on hs ex, and you kind of knowing all along.

Let him figure our who & what he wants. Without you hangin around.

Don't fall for for that crap in the future.

Here's the other thing.
Hes a user & distrespects.

Be done with him. He obviously never wanted what you want.

Wait, I take that back. You want him, he wants him.

Don't ever speak to him again, I wouldn't.

Move On, you deserve better. If you give him another chance, he'll upset you again. I don't know what happened with your ex-boyfriend, but In my opinion, too many girls give guys second chances when they don't really deserve them. Think about how his words and actions made you feel. Find someone who doesn't make you feel that way.

Giving him a second chance is more likely to stop you from meeting someone who truly cares about you. He has said these words and can't take them back, and even if he never says it again, they won't stop hurting you.

Take time out, do things for yourself and be OK with being single. Make sure you're over an ex relationship before starting a new one.