Is my husband cheating or not?
We have been married for 24 years, love each other and actually like each other. He works out of town for weeks, even months at a time. We talk almost every day. Our 11 yr old son and I went to see him (about 700 miles away) about a month ago. During our visit we wanted to find something fun things to do in the area. One night I was on the computer looking for ideas and came across where he had been going to websites for dating, affairs, hookups, whatever you'd call them in the local area he was in. I'm not sure what to make of this. We have had friends that are divorced because this kind of thing and we always agreed it was wrong and stupid. It's not the kind of thing he would do. I want to think this was just him looking on the computer, but there are other websites on the computer for "looking". What should I do? I'm mad but mostly hurt.