My natural hair color is dirty blonde and the past few months I have been trying different colors to see what looks best. I normally have blonde highlights in my hair but I recently colored my hair a dark auburn color and for some crazy reason decided to dye over that with a soft black dye. I have very pale skin. I need to know how to fade this out and get it to lighten up a lot! I want to get rid of it without bleaching it. Please help me. I feel so gross with this color!