Hi, I have a sister that wants to completely ruin my life, she has no job and is close to 30 and so wants to see me fail. I don't really get along with my co workers but I do the job I am supposed to. I know she tries to contact them and try and ruin my reputation in my workplace. People at work don't seem to like me much anymore and so I am all alone with no one to turn to. I have a few colleagues at work that completely hate me too and they spread the word to everyone that no one should like me. All I am trying to do is go to work and do my job but she and people at work are making my life hell. Is there any advice, I feel alone and seeing hell everywhere I look. Also cousins and family members have turned against me.

Do you have proof that its your sister turning everyone against you? How is she doing that with everyone you know? That's a lot of effort to find out who you work with, and then look them up. Why do you say that your family and co workers hate you. Do you have conflicts with them?

Please explain.