I am wondering can you tell me what wrong with me I have a lump between my back passage and my vagina it a about the size of a pea and it is sore when I have a pooh it some times bleeds and it bright red blood like a fresh cut

You have hit the jackpot. You have a hemorroid!

Yup, sounds like a hemorrhoid. Talk to your doctor, if it's bad enough he may recommend having it banded.

It could be that you have either a hemorrhoid or a bartholin cyst. Only a doctor can tell you for sure.