Please give some reply so that I can get out of this relation ship .

Wow, we really need more information here, so forgive me for asking questions in return, but we can't help you unless we understand your situation.

Are you married? How long? Why do you want out of the relationship?

So they are not ready, you file in court and the court orders it. If they don't want to go, then you proceed with the divorce. A person can not be made to do a mediation if they do not so desire

Leave, and let your lawyer handle it.

What do you mean by that question. What kind of mediation you want for her. Who is that girl a girl friend or your sister. You have to write that in detail.