31 year old daughter living back at home and is disrespectful what to do?
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I have a 31 year old daughter who broke up with her abusive boyfriend 6 months ago and is now living at home.
She gets on well with my fiancé and makes fun of me to him like "Look at that big hippo" and they both laugh, also makes fun of me in company and they both have a good laugh about it. It makes me feel like my home is not mine anymore.
She met another boyfriend about 2 months ago, asked me if he could sleep over and I said under no circumstances. She then went and asked my fiancé and he said yes. So the young aggressive man started spending weekends at our house and never contributed a thing, never greets and just expects everything handed to him, I say no eating in the room, he eats in the room my daughter says its fine for him to do so.
They had an argument 1 week ago when they where out with friends, my fiancé was sleeping and I was watching a show on TV. When she came back home screaming and sayiing he hit her and swore her. And I must go and talk to him at the car, he then came in and started pushing her around, I tried to protect her and he hit me across the face. I woke my boyfriend up, he had a lot to drink and tried to get the boyfriend to leave he did not want to leave, I got my gun and asked him to leave eventually he did. My daughter takes his side and said I held a gun to his head and I did not.
I have told my daughter that I do not want him near this house and my fiancé agrees.
I wish my daughter would move to another place as she is very disrespectful to me.
What should I do. She is also taken and fetched from work in my car everyday.
Boyfriend drinks on weekends starts on a Thursday...
Please someone give me advise as to what I should do with a man that drinks from a Thursday evening until a Sunday evening. That is a bottle a day.
He is not aggressive but argumentative toward me. Always picking a fight with me about silly things. For instance he would water the garden for 5 hours at a time until the water runs down the road. He would boil the kettle about 15 times to wash the dishes, when I say we have hot water in the gyser he says Boo Hoo sob sob!
We have NO money he sells property which I help him with, but needs to take all the credit , he has been selling property for 9 years and I have for 20 years. I know that I am a good agent. and when we meet up with old clients and they comment on the good service I gave them, he gets upset with me,
I feel as though my life is slipping away as I used to be very motivated as an agent, now I don't even try.
I feel as though I am going mad!