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  • Aug 23, 2011, 04:08 PM
    ahay19
    Why am I not popular?
    Why is it the whores and huuuge attention craving drama loving stuck up preppy *****es get all the attention they wantt?
  • Aug 23, 2011, 04:12 PM
    slapshot_oi
    Because they're not as angry and as unapproachable as you are.
  • Aug 23, 2011, 04:38 PM
    justcurious55
    ERROR: You must spread some Reputation around before giving it to slapshot_oi again.

    Popularity is not everything. And not all attention is good. Some of the girls that were most well-known at my high school were known for things I would never want to be known for. The people that did know me knew me as someone who was dependable, honest, and hard-working. And I'd rather a few people know me for those kind of qualities than for being a whore or a drama queen by everyone.
  • Aug 23, 2011, 04:40 PM
    ahay19
    I'm really not an angry person at all. You don't know me, please don't judge? Kthanks. I'm just asking a question bro.
  • Aug 23, 2011, 04:43 PM
    Wondergirl
    I was popular in high school because I was smart and at the top of my class.
  • Aug 23, 2011, 04:44 PM
    ahay19
    Thank you justcurious55 ! :) haha that's a really good point
  • Aug 23, 2011, 04:45 PM
    ahay19
    Lolol , Wondergirl. I got the highest average in my school 2 years in a row now and I'm not popular. Things have changed !
  • Aug 23, 2011, 04:47 PM
    Wondergirl
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by ahay19 View Post
    lolol , Wondergirl. I got the highest average in my school 2 years in a row now and I'm not popular. things have changed !

    I don't believe things have changed. We need to talk.
  • Aug 23, 2011, 04:49 PM
    ahay19
    Wondergirl.. I'm sorry, but I believe that they have. If being smart made you popular that that's all cool but I am smart and I'm not.. sooooo
  • Aug 23, 2011, 04:50 PM
    Wondergirl
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by ahay19 View Post
    Wondergirl.. I'm sorry, but I believe that they have. if being smart made you popular that thats all cool but I am smart and I'm not .. sooooo

    Then there is something else going on with you.
  • Aug 23, 2011, 04:51 PM
    ahay19
    Like what?
  • Aug 23, 2011, 04:55 PM
    Wondergirl
    Tell me more about your life at school.

    1) If you are in a group of, say, five people, what happens?

    2) How do you decide on where to sit and eat at lunchtime?
  • Aug 23, 2011, 05:03 PM
    ahay19
    5 people? Haha well it kind of depends on who and what the situation is! If they are my really good friends I'd probably have a really good laugh and , I'd have a conversation with anybodyy! And a little laugh if they are nice!

    & I either sit with my group of closer friends (probablyy most often), or I have a few guy friends I sit with sometimes, and there's another clique of girls I sit with sometimes because I have a few friends in it! orr sometimes with this girl in my class if her friendss went out and she wanted to stay and have a chat with me! I just sit with whoever I had plans to sit with that day :p
  • Aug 23, 2011, 05:13 PM
    Wondergirl
    Do you make the person you are talking with the most important person in your life for that time?
  • Aug 23, 2011, 05:15 PM
    ahay19
    Um, well I listen to them and pay attention to the conversation and stuff! I wouldn't say they are the most important person in the world :P ?
  • Aug 23, 2011, 05:17 PM
    Wondergirl
    For that time, I said.

    What if you were with someone you don't like much? -- say, a teacher assigned the two of you to do a special project.
  • Aug 23, 2011, 05:22 PM
    ahay19
    I'd make the most of the situation! Like this girl on my soccer team doesn't like me, and I'm not a big fan of her either, but we talk to each other and stuff as if we're bestkind! I still respect her. And we need to work together on the team so we kind of act like we're friends when we both know we don't really like each other that much :p its all cool
  • Aug 24, 2011, 08:56 AM
    slapshot_oi
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by ahay19 View Post
    im really not an angry person at all. you dont know me, plz dont judge? kthanks. im just askin a question bro.

    Lol

    Then don't judge others, for instance, the "whores and and huuuge attention craving drama loving stuck up preppy *****es".

    I call it like I see it.

    Judge not, lest ye be judged.
  • Aug 24, 2011, 11:54 AM
    mmresd
    What does being popular mean to you? And what is it that you would like to be popular for. The people you are choosing to judge are the "whores and and huuuge attention craving drama loving stuck up preppy *****es". I am going to guess that you are not wanting to be one of those people considering that you are talking down on them, if you wanted to be popular you can just do what they do. So... what is it that you would like to be known for? In high school, which was not too long ago for me, I was pretty popular because I knew everyone, and everyone knew me because of my grades (not the highest but pretty high) and for being a good friend.

    Good Luck,
    Javi
  • Aug 24, 2011, 02:18 PM
    ahay19
    lol

    Then don't judge others, for instance, the "whores and and huuuge attention craving drama loving stuck up preppy *****es".

    I call it like I see it.

    Judge not, lest ye be judged.

    Well people that sleep around at like age 14 are whores I'm afraid. And I know a lot of them really well , enough to know that they love their attention and drama. & they are very concerned wit their looks and "preppy" I KNOW these people so I can tell you these things for a fact. You don't KNOW me! So you can't say anything

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