We know that we love each other, but he is scared of being called a pedo plus we are stuck because he lives in Leighster, and I live in Boston. What should we do?

If he is 14 years old and you are 11 years old he isn't a pedo at least as long as he isn't 18 and then it depends if your parents like him or not

You are a child, so is he. I'm sure you think you are in love, but you really know little about it. And I suspect he is using the pedo thing to try and let you down easy.

What do your parents think of this?

Ask your mom for some advice.

Forget about him. You're too young to worry about or actually be "in love". Be a kid while you still can.

When I was 11, I was in love with a 14 y/o boy too. Then I took a couple of deep breaths, and when my heart stopped beating so fast and I'd returned to Earth, I played catch with my little brother, weeded our family garden, helped my mom make cookies, and washed the kitchen and bathroom floors. After that, I did my homework and watched a little bit of TV before I went to bed.

11 is a great time to start having crushes, it is a strong feeling and a start

First are you sure he is a 14 year old boy, did you ever really meet, or just online

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Originally Posted by Fr_Chuck

First are you sure he is a 14 year old boy, did you ever really meet, or just online

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I can't give you a +1... too bad.

That's a great point.

If you've never met him, it is possible he is lying to you. Do your parents know about this boy?