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I have been dating this girl for 1 year she used to tell me she loved me and I would say it back. She told me she met this guy that was selling puppies and got his number. She changed a lot after she met this guy. Now she doesn't call me I have to call her. It doesn't seem like she means it when she says she loves me and she care more about the puppy he gave her than me. I am usually not a jealous person but my gut tells me something is wrong. What should I do?

How old are the two of you?

I suggest you talk to her and ask her if her feelings for you have changed.

What you see/hear might not always be correct. Talk it out to her before its late.

She is your girl, talk to her.

Ask her.
She took some guys number and I assume she is talking to him... Ignoring what's there does not make it go away.

I've been dating this girl for almost 2 years. It was an on and off thing and while we were on breaks she would be with other guys. However whenever I seen her I would go back to her because she is very atractive. I love her looks but I hate her personality. I have caught her cheating but I don't leave her because she is hot. Should I keep it that way or leave her?

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If you don't like her personality stop playing games with her and move on. You say she cheats. You say she doesn't seem to care about you anymore, so why stay?

There are plenty of good looking women who will have a personality more suited to your own than this female. Let this one go for good and start looking around.

Seems like you're banging your head on the wall over and over again. I'm sure you get a thrill from banging your head, but it's not sustainable in the long run.

I'm sure that at some point your head is going hurt enough for you to stop. However, once your head has healed a bit, you start banging it again.

Hopefully you recognize that life doesn't have to hurt so much. There are other pretty girls out there who aren't going to cheat on you!

I have to take back what I said earlier about talking to your girl, because its quite clear she ain't just your girl, and she does what she pleases with whomever she pleases. So why are you happy to be stuck on her beauty, and sharing her with others?

Can't you get a better girlfriend, one of your own with brains, beauty, AND a personality you like? One you don't have to share???