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  • Aug 20, 2011, 03:06 PM
    celsiusstar
    I get bored of guys easily... maybe I should just focus on myself?
    I just wish I could find a guy that I didn't get bored of so quickly. I'm 27, and I am starting to just feel like I may be alone forever.. I know I have a co-dependent personality, so whenever I'm interested in someone, they are all I think about... when I have other things in life that I should concentrate on.
  • Aug 20, 2011, 03:14 PM
    Wondergirl
    Perhaps you could work on yourself for a while. Maybe find a counselor who will help you figure out why you have such a short attention span when it comes to men?

    Do you really understand the meaning of codependent?
  • Aug 29, 2011, 09:30 AM
    agh1990
    Maybe it's not that you're getting bored of the guy, but that you're bored with aspects of your own life and are blaming it on the guy you're with because it's easier than facing up to the problems you may be having.
    Why not ust forget about guys for the time being? Do something that interests you, that takes your mind off work and home issues and is something you can become really passionate about. Once you start doing things you love, you'll start being able to love yourself more and will be able to enjoy doing things by yourself without having to have a guy around.
  • Sep 10, 2011, 07:44 AM
    whit17
    I would say keep to yourself for a little while until you meet someone you really like. But pay attention to how much you like this person. Is it the same old same old or does it feel stronger than others before? Ask yourself this before you jump into a relationship that won't last.
  • Sep 10, 2011, 10:02 AM
    Kahani Punjab
    Yeah, compare, think and attach with him. Explore your possibility with that person, share your desires, expectations even and 'play' with him, whatever you want and he allows. Read certain books which tell about how to strengthen relations, and keep it in mind, that man and woman are having different needs, different attitudes but same passion about each other. Work on yourself, get a new haircut, get exercise, read and love yourself, as a consequence your boredom, which is actually yours, not in the guy you meet, will disappear. I hope it helps.

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