My boyfriend cheated on me with his ex girlfriend, and I took him back, mistake?
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I love my boyfriend with all of my heart, and he cheated on me with his ex at a concert. He made out with her, and his reason for doing that was because the song was slow and it was an "in the moment thing", I know he loves me, but he broke my heart. I still love him, and I took him back, and now I feel like it was a mistake because our relationship has no trust, and we fight all the time because of our lack of trust, someone help me please. I don't know what to do. I've thought about ending it a lot, but I love him so much, I can't do it.
We have been very close for 2 years now, and we've been in a relationship for a while now, I love him to pieces but our relationship is not working out. Seeing him with another girl would kill me. In the past he has cheated on me with his ex once, and he has made up for it a lot, but recently I found out a month ago he had a picture of a girl in her bra on his phone, he asked for the picture, and I don't know how to deal with this? We weren't officially dating at the time, but we were still very close.
He told me he has no contact with her anymore, but I have no proof. I know he loves me, which is why I don't understand why he does this if he knows it hurts me. I've put up with way too much, and I'm not sure why I deal with it. I love him with all my heart, maybe that's why but I need help, I need advice because I'm at my breaking point, and I don't know how to deal with this.
We have no trust (because of him) but we were willing to work on it. Is it time to let him go? Or should we continue working on our relationship?
We both love each other, but I've given him way too many chances. Help?