About 3 days ago,me and my partner had sex,but, we didn't use a condom because I'm on the birth control pill,which my GP said that it was fine to have intercourse,and that I would not get pregnant.I didn't really want to take this risk, so my partner promised that he'd pull out as soon as he could, even though he's convinced he pulled out, I have this nagging feeling that it all went wrong, because my stomach felt really tight just before he pulled out, I'm so worried,because even though we took precautions, I'm concered that I may get pregnant-But what are the tell tale signs that my partner ejaculated inside me?And could I really be pregnant?Because I'm on the pill my next period is due in 3 weeks.. Any help and advice will be very useful, but please, no sarastic remarks about me keeping my legs shut, or all the usual, I know I made a mistake, but I do really need advice to stop me from worring-
Much thanks x

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Originally Posted by Gracey_95

im only 15

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15 years old and having unprotected sex!!

Do you want to be a parent??

If you think you are old enough to be having unprotected sex then you get all the lectures that come with it.

Condoms do more than just protect against pregnancy. They also protect against stds. Stds that are uncurable like aids. And stds that are hard to detect symptoms for like chlamydia, which can do a lot of damage if left untreated. So lets say you don't get pregnant, are you ready for an std? Could you live the rest of your life with something like herpes?

As for being pregnant, ANY time you have sex, even if you use the pill and condoms, or heck, even if you use the pill, condoms, and spermicide, there will ALWAYS be some chance of pregnancy. NO method of birth control is 100% effective, except for abstinence. There's no way to determine if you're pregnant at this point. You'll have to wait until your period is due and then take a test around that time. Most tests aren't accurate until you've missed a period although some claim to be accurate up to a few days before a missed period.

Birth control pills, or any other hormonal birth controls, are not a free pass to have unprotected sex. Please get yourself tested for stds and use more caution if you decide to continuing having sex at this point in your life.

And, one more thing I can't believe I forgot to address...

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.I didn't really want to take this risk,

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If you're uncomfortable doing something, don't do it! There is absolutely nothing wrong with saying "NO." and that goes for all situations, not just sex. You still have years of peer pressure ahead of you. Get used to saying it. Next time you don't want to do something say so, and if your partner can't respect your feelings then they are not worth your time and they don't truly care about you. A partner that truly cared would respect your decision and be willing to look for compromises that would satisfy both of you.

Ok, no form of birth control is 100 percent,

So can you get pregnant just using the pill ? Of course, 1000's do each year.

Pull out is not a method, it only reduces the sperm ( if he really pulls out) but there are plenty of sperm in the early fluids.

So yes, you can worry, since you may be pregnant