I'm married having 2kids,from last 6 months my husband watching naked movies of women and men on net,during this time he ignored me .so when I caught him in mid of night during watching sex movies on net.he felt shame and apologize with me.I want to ask is my nikkah is halal on him.my heart and soul not agree to forgive him.in the light of Quran what should I do... I want to get rid of this tension.KINDLY HELP ME

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Taken from (and edited to show difference in gender) website recited from J_9 (sorry about the forgetfulness)

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Your husband is to help you out with divorce if things don't work & you demands for it. However, there is always room for improvement in situations. He needs to be showing you that it would not be happening in future.

Anything that disturbs a mans wife has the potential threat of leading to divorce.

Sister, you are not wrong. You are fighting for a good cause. Not everyone is so blessed to have that such wives. YOu need to make show him that & help him to give up pornography.

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This is MY opinion on this matter...

I would suggest speaking to your Imam about this issue. Tell him how it concerns you, for your health as well as your husbands health, and for your marriage. Ask that he speak to your husband privately about this issue.

It may be your husband has an addiction to pornography.

For you, and your own well being, give this problem to your Imam, hand it to Allah, and pray for His guidance, and for a change in your husband.

Do not turn to divorce until you have done EVERYTHING you can to make the situation better.

Jennie, did you copy your answer from here?

Islam: Does watching porn allow a wife to ask for divorce, married life, forgiveness

Yes, OMG I forgot. Sorry hon! I always forget to link when I find the answer for someone on the net

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Jenny, I didn't realize you were Islamic. This sounds like it's straight from an Islamic site. Even the way it's phrased sounds like it's from someone to which English isn't their first language. This post doesn't sound like you at all. What's go

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I thought I had shared that? I said my Shahada and became muslim last year. I am still learning though, and I did get most of my reply from a website, but forgot to cite it :( I always do that. I even got a 0 on a paper in school because I forgot my cites, but at least they believed me when I said I wasn't trying to 'play-gor-eyes' lol. (sorry I can't spell that word and the spell check wouldn't pick up on my spelling)