Ask Me Help Desk

Ask Me Help Desk (https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/forum.php)
-   Personal Growth (https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/forumdisplay.php?f=250)
-   -   One chinese ask for some help (https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/showthread.php?t=592835)

  • Aug 14, 2011, 10:49 PM
    nihaolzw
    One chinese ask for some help
    I don't kown how to talk to people even the pretty lady likes me
    When I have a caversation I always feel weird ,shy and I have nothing
    To say just answer and I really hope this caversation end quikly
    When I was a teenager idont have that issue at all I don't kown why
    Sorry about my grammar
    Really appreciate
  • Aug 14, 2011, 10:57 PM
    Wondergirl

    Smile, look at the other person's eyes (but don't stare), and listen carefully so you can ask questions.

    Practice with a brother or sister or friend.
  • Aug 14, 2011, 11:39 PM
    nihaolzw
    No I can't the only thing I say is "morning"
    Ican't get 9Emotional communication) I Google for this
  • Aug 15, 2011, 08:32 AM
    I wish

    How old are you now? Are you in school? Working?

    Are there particular people that you would like to talk to but too shy for?

    Do you have any close friends that you talk a lot with?
  • Aug 19, 2011, 05:10 AM
    nihaolzw
    23 now I'm working now. I don't get the fuuny part about work
    For me life is torture maybe some childhood stuff or something I don't know I don't have close friend.for ladis I feel inferior.and too shy to talk. When I little I just feel weird.well every
    Child kind be weird I thought it's must be cure when I grow up.but just getting worse.
    Look at me kind like paul potts. I just feel so bad
  • Aug 19, 2011, 08:01 AM
    I wish
    Why don't you have any close friends? Do you have trouble opening up to another person?

    Another way to build confidence is to talk to strangers any way that you find comfortable.

    Coming onto this site is a good way to start. Now you have an opportunity to express how you feel and we can do what we can to help you. We might not be able to do everything for you, but at least we can help you get started with baby steps.

    What kind of interests or hobbies do you have?
  • Aug 19, 2011, 09:10 AM
    nihaolzw
    World of warcraft ,bicycle ,movie
  • Aug 19, 2011, 09:13 AM
    nihaolzw
    Now it's 0:13 pm in china
  • Aug 19, 2011, 09:14 AM
    nihaolzw
    I like south park it's pretty funny
  • Aug 22, 2011, 12:15 PM
    I wish
    I notice that your hobbies do not involved meeting people face to face. Could it be that you're not too interested in having friends and you like to do this by yourself?

    There's actually nothing wrong with wanting to do this on your own.

    But if you do want to make new friends, you'll need to do things that allow you to meet other people.
  • Aug 23, 2011, 03:58 AM
    nihaolzw
    I'm not good with people
  • Aug 23, 2011, 04:10 AM
    nihaolzw
    I can't get what people think
    And how to talk
    Is there some books or movies can help?
  • Aug 23, 2011, 01:15 PM
    I wish
    Try this:

    The Guide to Self Help Books: Your Online Bookstore for the Best in Self Help, Self Improvement,Self Development, and Personal Growth

    Amazon.ca: Self-Help: Books

    Just Google: Self help books.
  • Aug 24, 2011, 01:21 AM
    nihaolzw
    Do me a favor
    Could you search it for me Chinese version better
    I'm not good at English.
    Kind be silly we spent a lot of time learn English
    And don't do well. We just learn how to pass the test.
  • Aug 24, 2011, 01:56 AM
    nihaolzw
    I remember there's a movie one gay said his job is
    Talk to strangers and I wonder what position I stand
    How I talk.but if treat people like that where's the
    Passion of life.
  • Aug 24, 2011, 08:12 AM
    I wish
    I'm not sure they have the Chinese versions of these books. I'm not sure how to help you find the Chinese versions. It wouldn't hurt to try to read them in English!
  • Aug 25, 2011, 05:46 AM
    nihaolzw
    Well thanks
    I go for a try
  • Aug 25, 2011, 06:47 AM
    nihaolzw
    How you fell about this
    子曰:“学而时习之,不亦悦乎?有 自远方来,不亦乐乎?人不知而不愠 不亦君子乎?”

    有子曰:“其为人也孝悌而好犯上者 鲜矣。不好犯上而好作乱者,未之有 。君子务本,本立而道生。孝悌也者 ,其为仁之本与?”
  • Aug 25, 2011, 06:49 AM
    J_9
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by nihaolzw View Post
    how you fell about this
    子曰:“学而时习之,不亦悦乎?有 自远方来,不亦乐乎?人不知而不愠 不亦君子乎?”

    有子曰:“其为人也孝悌而好犯上者 鲜矣。不好犯上而好作乱者,未之有 。君子务本,本立而道生。孝悌也者 ,其为仁之本与?”

    Can't read that!
  • Aug 25, 2011, 06:52 AM
    nihaolzw
    Sorry
    http://i.6.cn/tu.6.cn/69/51/4c/34088...e6f0d.nail.jpg

  • All times are GMT -7. The time now is 05:52 AM.