Okay me and my boyfriend is trying to have a baby and we have been trying to get one for about 3-4 months now and its like I feel a hard lump inside my stomach and then 5 minutes laters its not there anymore. Where trying so hard to have a baby... but we don't know why we can't get one..

It often takes more than a few months to get pregnant. (It took me three years.) And you may be stressed out from trying too hard. Relax and have fun and let things happen naturally without pushing for results.

Are the two of you ready with jobs and a stable relationship? Have you been taking prenatal vitamins? Do you know how strangely a baby will affect your life?