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Hi, I met this guy almost four years ago. He came on to be romantic, affectionate, and well kept. What I didn't realize was he didn't mind putting his hands where they didn't belong. Me and my family take a vacation every year in July, and I was packing to go to Walt Disney World, and he asked if I was still going after he had told me he wanted me to be with him. I said yes, and I was falling off my bed, he had slapped me down.

I then told him that I didn't want to be with him, and that I never been with someone abusive, and he apologized, and then I was very frighten. He would never leave me alone, my family was scared of him, even the police. He stalked me. Everyone I tried to be friends with, and he took me, and my kids only ride we had, and destroyed it.

And then we married. I am a very angry person now. He has totally changed me. I am not the same anymore. He doesn't respect me, and I don't respect him. I am so so fed up with him to the fact that I just want to leave the country, and change my whole life. I just don't know what to do. I have no money, no car, nor job. He took everything I worked hard for..! Please help!!



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Can your parents help at all, give you a safe place for a while, and tickets??

Tal is right- get the he** out while you can.

I don't know what country you are in, but seek out assistance from any women's resource centre, police station, social services, family, friends, etc. There are resources available to you in any country for the most part, and you must seek help.

If you don't help yourself, you will remain where you are.

Please get going with a plan to be free of this man.