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  • Aug 11, 2011, 08:00 AM
    Krs
    Falling in love again
    After 13 years of being with the same person, 6 years of that is marriage.. can you fall in love with that person again?
  • Aug 11, 2011, 08:20 AM
    J_9

    Got to give us more info into what is going on so that we can help you.
  • Aug 11, 2011, 08:30 AM
    Krs
    Getting on even better, more communication, more intimacy and I look at him and think WOW HE's GORGEOUS :)

    Understanding each other more as well...
  • Aug 11, 2011, 09:47 AM
    Cat1864

    Are you asking for advice or a discussion?

    Was something happening before that you didn't feel as though you loved him?
  • Aug 11, 2011, 12:23 PM
    Krs
    No I always loved him, but you know what crush feeling when you first met the man or woman of your dreams... it's that feeling.. should I tell him as well?
  • Aug 11, 2011, 12:44 PM
    Fr_Chuck

    Yes it is very possible to "fall in love more" with a person you have been with for years. It requires work, just like any relationship. Often it helps to go to couples counseling or to try things to improve a relationship.
    There is a book I highly recommend in counseling called
    "Love Languages" It has opened the eyes of many as to what their partners are really saying or wanting.

    But growth also means changes, which is harder to do as people grow in relationships
  • Aug 11, 2011, 01:15 PM
    Krs
    Should I tell him what I am feeling?
    Thanks, I will look out for this book
  • Aug 12, 2011, 02:30 PM
    talaniman

    Hi Krs, been a long time my friend. By all means let him know you are falling for your guy all over again. And tell him you look forward to keep falling for him, again, and again, and yet again.

    That's what keeps old people like my wife and I young, we keep falling for each other, at least once a week.
  • Aug 20, 2011, 04:03 AM
    Krs
    Thanks Talaniman

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