It has been an 8 month relationship. We are attracted to each other became we are very attached to each other. Feelings did grow for both of us. She does not know what she wants, and she wants a break, but does not want to lose me. She also said it would be hard for her to let go of our relationship, and she is feeling down about it. She does not know what to do.

She also has a high tolerance to alcohol, goes clubbing with friends, unintentionally gets drunk, and does things she wouldn't do. I told her there is no middle ground, its either were together, or not. She didn't give me a straight answer. She said she does not want to lose me though.

So I told her I was NOT going to sit, and wait for her to come back, and I followed through with the break up. Then she replies to me, and says "I want to see you, but I want to see other people know". I replied to her and said "perhaps I'm going to do the same, but i would rather sit down, and talk about it instead of text messaging". She agreed and I have not replied to her at all.

What should I do next?


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Seriously if both of you want to see other people then just end it. Truth is sounds like she likes someone else but isn't sure how it will work out. So instead of breaking up with you see will keep you around as a safety net. Don't be a safety net. Either the two of you are together or you aren't.

Don't waste your time waiting around for this one. She just wants to string you along until something better comes along. Don't fall for it.

Let her do her drunk thing, and whatever else she wants. This sounds like a blessing in disguise to avoid drama. Take it, and run.

I would disappear, and ignore this drunken party animal.