Should I keep trying to make things workout with the babs mom even though she keeps playing game with my head and lying to me... im only trying to make things work just to spend time with my little curl... what do I do...

Stop playing her games and do for the child, Polite but indifferent to the mother. See a lawyer and know your rights and remedies under the law. Children, especially your own, should not be put in the middle of adult stuff. (You did pick the mother)