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  • Aug 5, 2011, 04:49 PM
    anon234
    My boyfriend cheated on me with his ex. We both want to get back together,what to do?
    I found out my boyfriend cheated on me with his ex, he says he knows he has mucked up, and he wants me back. I still have feelings for him and miss him, and I also want him back, but can I trust him? Will he do it again? I really want to take him back becauseIi still love him, but I don't want to risk being hurt again.
  • Aug 6, 2011, 12:34 PM
    talaniman

    Staying with a lying cheater is always a risk for being hurt again, and it will take a long time to trust him like you did before. A long time.

    Easy to forgive, but you will never forget. Only you know if he is worth that risk. How did you find out he was a lying cheater?
  • Aug 6, 2011, 12:58 PM
    Fr_Chuck

    Why do you still love him,
  • Aug 7, 2011, 02:21 AM
    vanheart
    Well, I will put it mildly. I was going to go off.

    Would you do that to someone?

    Do you wish to be with someone that treats you that way?

    A second chance. That's up to you. I wouldn't.

    You are already #2, have been. He never got over his ex. Then slept w/her while you were his girlfriend.

    Think about it. Not your model mate...

    What are you going to wait until the trust comes back? You shouldn't have to work that hard to be #1.

    You either are or not.

    Its all about how much time you want to waste. Rebound, hello?

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