I'm sorry for it being long, but please help! This is the situation...

I went out with this guy, and it was OK. He hardly texts me, but when he did it was always really nice, but we had an argument, and broke up. Then got back together, and was happy... but we broke up because someone was getting in the way, and twisting everything, and the person said to him "I was going to hurt him.", and flirts, and annoys people.

Then I woke up, and had a family breakdown, and I thought I'd rather not drag him through it, and I don't want to be horrible to him, because I don't want to hurt him even more. So I said lets get back together after the summer, and he said, "No you've missed your chance thats it."

I really like him still, I love him, but he says we are friends. He said the day after "I can't believe you've dumped me", (I really love him, I'm not sure what to do) :'(

What do I do? I want him back so bad :(



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Seems he is tired of make up break up drama, for whatever reason, and you can't blame the guy, and breaking up for the summer is just too much for anyone.

I don't know if talking to him will change his mind, but maybe you can tell him that decisions like breaking up will be talked about by you both in the future, and you won't just dump him, for reasons he doesn't get to hear, from clear out of the blue.

I mean what guy wants to get dumped by his girl because she is having a bad day. Maybe he will listen, maybe he won't, but being honest, and upfront deserves a shot.

How old are you?

Tell him the truth and tell him that you didn't want to drag him into your family problems. The #1 thing in relationships is communication. Which men don't know how to do! But keep trying, don't be annoying about it. Answer mine. I'm in a tough situation too... https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/relationships/am-annoying-him-he-really-into-me-592634.html

I think you dumped him, should hold your ground, and just leave him alone.