Friends who always want to do what they want?
I have two friends in particular who recently have said I AM DIFFICULT TO MEET UP WITH.
I was noticing as d months went by that we did ALWAYS what they wanted to do it. ( they are not mutual friends ) separate friends, but very similar.
So they are now saying I'm difficult to meet because I refuse to do what they want.
Example.. one of them was off work for 5 days, and she said she misses me and what not.. so I told her lets make an effort to meet one day when you are off. She replied saying YES WE SHOULD.. 5 days later!! Im not going to stick around and wait, am I? So again she remarked I can never meet.
I always suggest easy things to do that arnt costly, like swimming.. but she is never interested always with excuses. She suggested a concert which cost money!
Another one :- I was about to organize a bbq at my house, but she said yes or at mine! She said probably best at mine because (her son) will be naughty and she won't relax.. he sleeps very late her son, so I said its better at mine, because my son sleeps at a reasonable hour and I won't be relaxed to take him out after his bed time, and as her soon sleeps at ridiculous hours. I said he can come out to my house.
Am I right I start getting annoyed?
The other one.. its abit different.. Its easier for me to meet in afternoon, but for her in the evening. So not sure how to work on that?!