I would like to know if anyone that is on here has been through anything like this and how it turned out. The child is turning 1 soon. Did you stay in the marriage and did it work? Problems or any sugestions would be appreciated. Our 15 year wedding anniversary is coming up so please don't suggest to leave him. That is not what I am looking for. I need serious suggestions please.

I moved this from the Family Law forum because you don't seem to be asking about the law here. I think you want to know how you cope with the mother and the fact of his infidelity. And you don't have to have experienced it to answer that question.

It's really difficult to do, a marriage is based on trust and when this happens trust becomes difficult. Only you know the circumstances that resulted in him being with another woman. You have to make your judgments based on that. The best advice I can give is counseling. A good marriage counselor can put things in perspective for you both. Show you how to deal with the traps and problems that will arise and help your marriage survive.