I am in love I want to show her that she can't imagine how much I love her.

Do it in everything you do. With your words. With your activity, with your eyes, with your gestures. Do something nice for her. Make something nice for her. Hug her, hold her.


And most important of all

TELL HER how much you love her.

OK thanks I'll do

How old are you both?

We both are22

Then you haven't learned what love is yet. You are infatuated with her... you feel lust for her... you can't possibly love her. You NEVER have such an URGE to PROVE love... but you do lust.

There is a huge difference between that and love. And that can get you in real trouble until you understand the differences.

Love grows... give it time... when you experience real love for the first time... you will see the differences I describe.

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Really... I suppose YOU are an expert in the field? You DID take the time to read the site rules about comments, didn't you? I guess not... since your opinion is never a reason to give someone a not helpful. Particularly when its wrong.

Im sorry smoothy I do have to disagree with you here.
At 22 years old, you CAN love someone. I absolutely agree its more than likely not love here, and an infatuation. But you CAN love someone at 22.

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Im sorry smoothy i do have to disagree with you here.
at 22 years old, you CAN love someone. i absolutely agree its more than likely not love here, and an infatuation. but you CAN love someone at 22.

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Very very few 22 year olds have the life experience to tell one from the other... and without it they they are almost impossible to tell apart... until they have been together a few years, not one... not two... but 3 or more and had more than one real relationship to know what good can be. Possible yes... likely, no.

McDonalds hamburgers might seem great to you if its all you ever had, and you argue they are the best burgers there is... but unless you ever went to Wendys or Fudruckers or a number of other premium burger joints... you don't know how good great can be.

Yeah... when I was 19 I thought I was in love with my girlfriend, I even visualized spending my life with her... eventually she did something that really ticked me off, and in hindsight I understand now... damn am I glad I never got stuck with her... and for reasons OTHER than what we broke up for.

I lacked the experience then to understand what I do now.

And when ANYONE comes off with " how to show my girl friend that i love her so much thaht she can'nt imagine " Nothing screams the little head in the pants has coldcocked the big head on the shoulders and rational thought isn't happening then. Lust most definitely... love most definitely NOT.

Oooh OK thank you I DO understand what you are saying now. Lol. Sorry :)

Hmmm I don't know about that, what if sex is the last thing on your mind because showing and proving your love feels sooo good. Nothing is better than knowing they understand your love. I don't need proof from my love, I know the feeling's mutual I just like to show it because it makes me feel like I'm on air when I see that look I get when I recite a fresh poem for her. It's just too much sometimes and the world must know of my love for her and if the world knows she does too. Analyse your own thoughts and feelings, don't tell someone they don't or can't love because you can't fathom their perception and substitute your own... Anyway every little thing can be made a way to show your love. Remind her with your actions and words that she's your one and only. Tell her you love here, go out of your way just to do things for her, write poetry, leave her notes on things she can't miss, the more personalized the better. Don't be afraid to be cheesy.

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hmmm i dunno about that, what if sex is the last thing on your mind because showing and proving your love feels sooo good. nothing is better than knowing they understand your love. i don't need proof from my love, i know the feeling's mutual i just like to show it because it makes me feel like i'm on air when i see that look i get when i recite a fresh poem for her. it's just too much sometimes and the world must know of my love for her and if the world knows she does too. analyse your own thoughts and feelings, don't tell someone they don't or can't love because you can't fathom their perception and substitute your own.... ANYWAYS every little thing can be made a way to show your love. remind her with your actions and words that she's your one and only. tell her you love here, go out of your way just to do things for her, write poetry, leave her notes on things she can't miss, the more personalized the better. don't be afraid to be cheesy.

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