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  • Jul 31, 2011, 01:54 PM
    krista79
    Am I pregnant?
    Hi, can someone help me,if I'm pregnant? July 14- first day of period. July19 and 23 -i had unprotected sex. I have a disharge white like paste. But its odorless. Thank you.
  • Jul 31, 2011, 02:02 PM
    joypulv
    Yes you are PREGNANT. You will be saddled with a child for the next 18 years, never have a dime, never go anywhere.
    Now, stop having unprotected sex, and go buy a test kit in 2 weeks, and another a week after if it's negative. How can we possibly know if you are pregnant?

    The white discharge is common and it's just your own fluids, lubricant. If it's odorous or green or yellow, it may be trich or any number of other STDs.
  • Jul 31, 2011, 02:14 PM
    krista79
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by joypulv View Post
    Yes you are PREGNANT. You will be saddled with a child for the next 18 years, never have a dime, never go anywhere.
    Now, stop having unprotected sex, and go buy a test kit in 2 weeks, and another a week after if it's negative. How can we possibly know if you are pregnant?

    The white discharge is common and it's just your own fluids, lubricant. If it's odorous or green or yellow, it may be trich or any number of other STDs.

    Excuse me?! I am married, I don't want to dissapoint my husband that's why I'm asking, and its my fisrt time if ever I'm pregnant. Think first before you answer to those question that is asking on this site,because the way you talk,your not helping. I'm asking to those people having a same experience,not to aperson like you.
  • Jul 31, 2011, 03:32 PM
    joypulv
    I apologize. I thought you wrote that you are 14! I'm so sorry.
  • Jul 31, 2011, 03:34 PM
    joypulv
    Right near your question is another one from someone who is 16, I scrolled down, got them mixed up, and totally messed up. Again, I apologize.
  • Jul 31, 2011, 03:44 PM
    J_9

    There is no way to tell at this point in time whether you are or are not pregnant. You are now playing the waiting game and have to wait until it is time for your period. If it does not come test using first morning urine.
  • Jul 31, 2011, 03:57 PM
    ScottGem
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by krista79 View Post
    excuse me?!!! i am married, i dont want to dissapoint my husband thats why im asking,

    Your indignation is understandable. I ask only that you understand that we get a lot of questions from members, especially teens, who are scared and worried that they may be pregnant after sex. Joy mixed up your question with another such question.

    This might have been avoided had you worded your question, my husband and I had unprotected sex giving us a better basis to deal with your question.
  • Jul 31, 2011, 04:50 PM
    krista79
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by ScottGem View Post
    Your indignation is understandable. I ask only that you understand that we get a lot of questions from members, especially teens, who are scared and worried that they may be pregnant after sex. Joy mixed up your question with another such question.

    This might have been avoided had you worded your question, my husband and I had unprotected sex giving us a better basis to deal with your question.



    Even if I don't mention that I had sex with my husband,its not right to give an advice like that. Please! Read carefully the question before you reply.
  • Jul 31, 2011, 04:51 PM
    krista79
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by joypulv View Post
    I apologize. I thought you wrote that you are 14!! I'm so sorry.


    Its OK. But next time,please read carefully the question before you answer. Thank you
  • Jul 31, 2011, 05:14 PM
    ScottGem
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by krista79 View Post
    even if i dont mention that i had sex with my husband,its not right to give an advice like that. please! read carefully the question before you reply.

    You are correct, but I can also say please be more clear when posting a question. I'm not trying to excuse Joy, but to help you get better help in the future.
  • Jul 31, 2011, 05:35 PM
    Alty

    You have to remember that we can only go by what you've written. The clearer your post is, the better we'll be able to answer it.

    There's no such thing as too much information. There's no limit in space. Telling us that you're trying to conceive would have been helpful, as well as the fact that you are indeed married.

    The majority of the posts in this forum are from teenagers that are worried that they might be pregnant. We don't get many posts from people actually trying to conceive.

    The bottom line though, no one can tell you if you're pregnant or not. Even if you list all your symptoms, all the dates you had sex, the day you ovulated, and everything else, we still couldn't tell you.

    There are only a few ways to detect pregnancy, and none of those options are available on the internet. Blood, urine, an ultrasound. We don't have access to those things here, therefore we can't give you an answer.

    You'll just have to wait and see, that's your only option.

    Good luck.

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