22 Year old Daughter disrespectful
Just wondered if I'm in the wrong or is she right? I am a widow and have been raising my now 22 year old daughter. She has this boyfriend that is an airline pilot and he really doesn't act like he really cares for her. He didn't txt or emails my daughter for a month or two. She didn't hear anything from him and then she jumped him for not emailing her or texting her. He was supposed to come over Memorial Day and stay for 2 or 3 days. He txt her and told her that his plans has changed and he had to work then we found out he was at his parents' house in Ill. My daughter asked him why he didn't stop buy on his way home and he just said that price of gas was so high that he didn't have the money. He was going by our town on the way to his parents' house. Now he wants her to go to TX to see him. He said she would fly free since he works for the airlines. I told her that, her boyfriend doesn't sound like he really cares for her and the way the world is today that it's not safe for a young girl to fly or take a trip by them. I told her why you are running to him when he didn't go out of his way to see you when he was going home that time. She says that I don't let her grow up but I told her that she is the only thing I have left and I don't want anything to happen to her. And I feel like that guy really don't think anything about her since he didn't and don't come to her to see her. What's wrong with my daughters thinking? She gets so mad at me for not approving of her going to see him. I told her that it isn't right for her to stay with him because I didn't want her to get pregnant either. She said that she wasn't going to have sex because she has already told him she wanted to wait until she got married before she wanted to have sex. I know that harmony is there. I don't want to accuse her but I'm not stupid. My daughter gets so mad at me and she always turns everything around and blames me for everything. If something goes wrong then she tells me that I should have been a parent and shouldn't have let her do whatever. I just know if something happens she will say that to me again. But if I tell her she shouldn't go she will be mad at me too. So now win situation. What should I tell her about going to see her boyfriend?