Basically my girlfriend who has jumped from relationship to relationship, has joined the RAF and now has a ridiculous amount of guys coming on to her. We've been going out for around 2 years going into third year of uni and our relationship was perfect before this summer. I knew something was wrong so I confronted her and she says she is confused. I recently found out she pulled some nob when really drunk at an RAF ball. She and I are best friends and she is scared to lose me but doesn't want to wake up when she's 40 and married and not have experienced being single. To make things worse, she is meant to be coming down on Saturday and we are meant to fly out to her family holiday together on Tuesday.

So basically I am stuck. What do I do? I want her, should I leave her then see if I can start things back up at uni? And this holiday, I am thinking I bail because it would just be painful?

If she wants to experience the single life then I suggest you let her... heck, seems like she is already doing it anyway while you seem to want a commitment.

I would let her do her thing and I would go and do mine... why hang around and be Mr. Safety while she goes out and "pulls some more nobs"... so don't be a fool man!

My advice let her go. If you beg and plead you are going to look needy. She wants to be single let her be single. That means you are single too! Go out have fun meet girls! Ironhide is right don't be a safety net!!

I would let her be single, and get someone who wanted what I wanted. I mean geeez, leave this drunk man hopper alone, and disappear right now. Are you crazy, or just like ignoring the facts??

She probably dumps you after the holiday any way, so leave, and don't come back. You can do better, can't you??

"jumped from relationship to relationship"

See?

She's single all the time. Let her be.

She isn't for you. She only wants the next guy.

My ex told me the same thing. I want to be single.
She wanted to be single the whole time actually. I was just "there" until...

Never talk to her again. You will thank yourself later.

I think deep down you know who she really is.