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  • Jul 23, 2011, 01:56 PM
    lily1470
    What should I do?
    This guy named Ryan told he loves me a year ago, and then he ask me out a week ago, but now he not texting back so what should I do about it, break up, or stay together?
  • Jul 23, 2011, 04:41 PM
    jenniepepsi

    Let me get this straight. He told you he loved you a year ago, but you have only been dating a week now.

    I'm very confused here, please give some more information
  • Jul 25, 2011, 05:35 AM
    lily1470
    And thanks for help sorry


    What I was trying to say was that he had a crush on me for a year but he just ask me out a week and 2 days ago
  • Jul 25, 2011, 09:05 AM
    jenniepepsi

    Ahh makes much more sense.
    How old are both of you?

    At this point I would say just take a deep breath, relax and wait for him to contact you. Sometimes it takes guys a while, and we will get anxious, but that's part of life lol. Good luck :)
  • Jul 25, 2011, 09:20 AM
    Cat1864

    Lily, do you mind if I ask how old both of you are? Also, where is 'here'?

    Could there be a reason such as family, friends, work, school, broken phone, etc. which could be preventing him from contacting you?

    When he asked you out a week ago, what did he say?
    What were both of you expecting?
    Did you agree that you are in a relationship or were you just supposed to go out on a date?
  • Jul 26, 2011, 10:13 AM
    lily1470
    He 13 and I'm 13 too I said yes because I was being nice and I did not want his heart to be broken even though I'm to young to date I did not want to be mean
  • Jul 26, 2011, 10:55 AM
    jenniepepsi

    Ahh easy fix then. To break up with him without hurting his feelings, I would just say 'im sorry my parents said I cannot date yet'
  • Jul 26, 2011, 11:13 AM
    Cat1864

    Are your parents okay with you dating? If not, then you have a parent given reason for 'breaking up.'

    I am not even certain if there is anything to 'break up'.

    If you don't want to 'date' him, don't worry about his not contacting you. Go about your own life.

    If you do want to 'date' him and your parents are okay with it, then give him the benefit of the doubt and time to contact you. It could be that he got himself grounded, lost his phone, his parents don't approve of him dating, or a few dozen other reasons he hasn't contacted you.
  • Aug 17, 2011, 10:31 PM
    lily1470
    Ok thanks guys I'll try to break up with him. My mom is okay with it, she said just don't kiss him, or do any thing beside holding hands. Like its OK to hold hands, but don't kiss they said. I guess I won't. I'll just break up with him. Thanks, I need to do school work any ways.


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