Hi all. Im new here.
My twins dad passed away nearly a year ago. I wasn't with him I'd moved on had more kids new boyfriend. But when I got this sad news it killed me. Im still going through the sadness now. Ive always felt him around me. My lights would always flicker none stop. Ive felt him hold my hand. Rub my arm and back. I when on this site oranum. Witch is live mediums rangeing from 99p a minit. I'd been waiting for two weeks to get someone who could give me something where I would no right away that they had my twins dad. Last night I found the guy on that site. (poet3 something) I went into is free chat room. He wanted to try and get something for me be for I paid for a private reading. He says to me what's your name. So I told him. And thatis all the info I gave him my own name. He then says I have a young man coming through. He's telling me he.s from the same generation as you but he died to young. I says yes. At this point I had a big feeling he had him :). Be for I went into a private reading. I asked my kids dad. To give me something where I'd know right away its you. I just kept saying it to him over and over. I then hit the private reading button. When I went in. He says hi joanne. Then this is the bit that blew me away. He says he's telling me to do this to you. He showed the medium the funny face that he would do all the time to me and our boys. He would pull is ears blow is cheeks up and stick is tongue out. And that's what the medium did. (wow) he then says joanne dose this make sense? I kept just righting omg omg omg. Then he says just say yes or no. Lol think I was so amazed that it was him. I new it was him with that face. That medium could not of took a guess to a funny face and it be that. So I new wayne had listened to me when I asked for something. He then talked about how waynes telling him he always wore trackys. (yes he did). Also trainers thatwere to big for him. So he would put loads of socks on lol (yes he did) he kept taking the medium back to when we were younger. 12-13. He then says you were is first loved he's telling me he always liked you. And it was funny how we got together. (yes). He was my first love to. We ended up having twin boys I was 14 when pregnant had them at 15. He was 16. He then says joanne do you have a daughter? I says yes I have 2. He says it's the daughter that's creative. That likes to draw. Make stuff . He then says he's telling me she has psychic abilities. ( wow) I was like omg she's only 6. He then says he.s telling me she as seen him. And he watched her draw a pic of him. She drew a man. Omg I was like oh no. I wondered why she would not go anywhere with out me. He also says he sees the little boy all the time when he comes to see me. I have a 18 month old boy. Wow wish I could see him. He also told the medium that he's always with me all the time. And he's the one that's been playing with the lights. I knew it was him. After getting this reading I felt him with me all night. I felt so happy couldn't get that funny face out my mind. So be for I went to my bed I asked him to come and see me in a dream. Just one dream. I knew he was here and listening to me. As he listend to me about giving me something solid in the reading. I must of fell asleep about 12.30am . At about 2.55am. I remember I was holding my son in my arms in this dream. Then I felt as if I was sinking or something that made me wake up. But I kept my eyes shut but I could feel my body all warm tingley. As I new I was awake I kept my eyes shut. I kept seeing colours and shapes. The colour blue was said to me. I also kept seeing flashes.and the little dots you get when you turn your TV on but its not tuned in. I tried so hard to go back to sleep in case that was him trying to get through. But I could feel him as if he was holding my whole body. I guess I got really scared and I just opened my eyes :(. Then I shut them again but this feeling and shapes colours had gone :( :(. I don't want to be scared as I know its only him. Dose anyone think that this was him trying to give me my dream I asked him for?? Im going to pray and ask him to come again tonight. But I no he's always here with me. Thanks joanne :)

Perhaps you just needed to get your emotions out, but this is really too long to read and digest.

I personally don't believe in mediums and have seen too many law enforcement seminars on how they work to change my mind. However, if a medium gives you comfort, then believe what he/she tells you.

No one knows if a loved one can come into someone's dreams BUT if the thought gives you comfort, hold on to it.

I'm sorry for your loss.

I understand what your saying but how the hell could he of new all whathe did?? How could he of just made that face to me as a guess that oh I would go wow that's him?? There's no way that the meduim could have done that face to me by a off chance it would be true. Wayne would have had to pull that face. As this face is not something every body would do... and he could not have new I had 2 daughters and a little boy. I never says one word to the medium. Apart from my name( joanne).. even people close to me who like yourself don't believe in this. Are shocked thathe came out with this stuff. And the face! Thanks anyway for your reply. I believe in it and I 1000000% no that was him. And I also believe that they come in dreams. And I no he's always here with me. How do you dismiss the fact that my little girl drew a pic of him. And thatshe as seen him?? That can not be fake? I don't mean to sound cheeky. I'm not being but I just don't understand how people can say its no true meduims are this.

I can say it because I took a number of fraud classes and saw how mediums and fortune tellers work. I'm not saying they are ALL frauds. I'm saying a great many of them are.

If it gives you comfort, believe.

I agree with Judy that extreme caution is required.

The most reputable and respected psychics are those that are not in it for the money. Any person I know, or have known in that type of business, does not belong to an online network that charges by the minute.

I would be leary of contacting them again. And really think through the people you spoke with before you went into a private chat.

It actually bothers me that people who are grieving a loss, are probably a good chunk of their business, and that seems wrong to me to target those that are desperately looking for answers, and/or to contact a loved one.

And I agree, that you have been given some comfort with what you have been told, and I would leave it at that before your bank account is empty.

I too am very sorry for your loss.

Deceased loved ones will come to you in dreams when they can. So far I've had 2 dead bf's come to me and I didn't even know that they had passed until I looked them up on the internet. I was shocked to find out that they had passed but then I was not so surprised having the dreams of them that lasted it seems for hours.

Don't be afraid of the person who has passed as they are just now coming back to check on you and the twins. The loved ones who have passed over like to come back and watch over us. If you feel his presence - he's probably there with you. If you find things moved or missing and then reappear - it's him doing this. I have stuff moved around all the time and stuff goes missing only to pop up in different areas of my home where the item never was. Or I experience "smells" that I connect with the dead person - like perfume or the smell of a cigar or pipe tobacco.

Don't bother with the psychic as you could also stir up an unwanted entity who is masquerading as your lost love.