Ok,I went to this sleep away camp that I have been going to for the 2nd year now and met this counsler their and slowly I think I have gotten to like her.LIKE like.She was there last year and I was friends with her then too.I have also been wondering if I was bi for a long time and up until now I had never had a crush on another girl before.But when I was nine(8,9,10ish,I can't remember crap) I would look at videos of naked women on YouTube.But I really think I have a crush on her.And I don't have a problem with being bi I just don't want the label of that.This one guy at my school told a few people he was gay and no one goes near him,well non of the guys.I just really,really,REALLY!! sorry.I just really need an answer and I have been going nuts about this. Please not hate.I'm just 13 and I'm confused.Please answer this.

What's the question?

First, I thought YouTube has a policy against porn. I can't imagine how you found pictures of naked women there.

Second, you are 13, it is absolutely normal for you to be confused about sexuality. You need to talk to your parents. Either to discuss your feelings with them or have them set up discussions with a professional to help you deal with your feelings.

But you should keep your feelings about this within your immediate family. This is not something you share with friends until you have worked out the feelings for yourself.

I don't know why you would have to tell anyone about your sexual orientation - bi, gay, straight. Why would you tell people? I don't share that I'm straight because it's nobody's business.

I also didn't share at your age.

13 year olds are always confused about sex, But then at 13 kids are not having sex ( or should not for way too many ways)

But if you think you are, wait and see how it feels in a year, or two years, feelings often change