Im 15,sweet,open minded, and caring. I don't understand why I can't find a boyfriend. Its like you have to be a slut to have a boyfriend.

Are you sure someone does not like you already? Find a guy not that popular and shy who you like. Practice in the mirror making eye contact and flirting. Bat your eyelashes and smaile--shrug a little. Walk with head up and say hello to everyone. Laugh and be happy.

If no one likes you because yo are not a slut, the heck with them.

Join some Christian organizations. If you are shy, make eye contact with everyone you pass and say hi and smile a lot. Boys are insecure too and need a little reassurance you like them. Keep your moral values and smile.

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Originally Posted by helpywanted

Are you sure someone does not like you already? Find a guy not that popular and shy who you like. Practice in the mirror making eye contact and flirting. Bat your eyelashes and smaile--shrug a little. Walk with head up and say hello to everyone. Laugh and be happy.

If no one likes you because yo are not a slut, the heck with them.

Join some Christian organizations. If you are shy, make eye contact with everyone you pass and say hi and smile a lot. Boys are insecure too and need a little reassurance you like them. Keep your moral values and smile.

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Got to disagree - flirting, batting eyelashes, shrugging a little? This is all playing games. Also - please keep in mind that not everyone who posts here is Christian.

School organizations, church organizations are great places to meet people, not just boys.

Be yourself. Boys are not a different species. Talk to them. Find a common interest. Not every relationship has to be boyfriend/girlfriend. Expand your circle of friends.

Do you meet boys in school, perhaps in after school activities? What are your interests?

Yes I agree not everyone here is christian... but anyway seek out someone that you see has the same interests as you have, may it be reading or track or something, maybe even music. To be honest your going to be hurt so go a head an put yourself out there beign shy will only get you so far on the cuteness part. Do your best to make a few friends one way or another. As a parting note. Relations ships can slow you down in your life. I settled down an am happy but on the low end of middle class, yet my brother is refused to date anyone or the such an has become very successful in his life. Its our choices that make our future. Best of luck but there is much more than a boyfriend you might be too good for them also never know.