Does he really just want to be friends?
Me and my ex broke up about two months ago, and we didn't talk for about a month of it because we needed space and to move on. We were very in love and very attracted to each other before we broke up, and both of us had a very hard time, but we broke up because we just spent too much time together, fought too much, etc.
So about a week or two ago he IMs me for the first time in about a month. I had been handling it pretty well, and I was shocked that he talked to me. After that he IMed me almost all the time, within a few minutes of me signing online. He calls occasionally and invites me places. We hung out EVERY day last weekend, and we ended up hooking up at a party on Saturday night and the next morning he took me out to breakfast, held my hand, and kissed me. All my feelings for him started coming back... and I don't know what to do! We both agreed not to "expect anything", but that's all we've talked about. We talk every day, not romantically, but just as friends or sometimes a little flirty.
I've already decided I cannot be "just friends" with him... it would be too hard for me since I'm starting to like him again. But that doesn't mean I don't want to wait for him or explore a little more before I cut him out again... is there ANY way he could really just want to be friends?? Why would he kiss me, call me all the time, IM me, etc? He gets really jealous of other guys too and isn't really looking for another girl. How can I tell without asking him/freaking him out because its so early?