I'm so confused... I was dating a guy<travis> for awhile and I broke up with him because I didn't feel apprecated and he was annoying me, but I still think about him all the time.


Now I have been dating a guy<robert> for about 8 months and he great but I'm not sure if its more as friends or not and its starting to get serious. And I feel like I should make sure that it is over between me and the other guy<travis> before I go forward with this one<robert>.

What do I do because I know that robert doesn't deserve that. But I do miss travis... I just don't know if me and robert are just friends or not.
What do I do? :confused:

I think that, for now, you should take a break from both of them and sort out your feelings.

I agree with manimuth... also this sounds selfish but don't worry if you are being unfair to one of them... what do YOU want? Don't worry, love can hurt! Do what your heart and brain are telling you too. Sounds to me like you don't have very strong feelings for either one of them,. and you don't have to settle! Others will come along! And when "he" does, you'll not want to be with the others! You'll know