My mom is marrying a monster! Help!
My mother is deciding to marry a man who she has only been dating for 10 months. The first couple of months, he cheated on her, lied several times, broke up with her 3 times and basically broke her heart. Each time, she has gotten back with him. After a month and half of getting back with him this last time, she let him move in with her. Everyone in the family dislikes him but is at least respectful when he's present. I have not even met him since I am away for school and the only time I could have met him was when he broke up with her days before christmas. She told everyone that she plans on marrying him, and that they bought rings already. I got very upset of course. We haven't talked about it since recently when she told me she wants to maybe get married in September. I don't know how to handle this. I feel so disrespected that she could even marry a man I haven't even met, let alone someone who has put her through so much pain. I can't see myself attending this wedding. I'd probably cry the entire time. This man has changed my mother! She is insecure, a smoker now, and completely unaware of her actions... What should I do!? HELP!