Broke up over office call
I had a wonderful relationship with a Japanese lady. We had been going out for almost 6 months and enjoyed our company very much. I really loved her and was even planning to marry her. We never had arguments and I was always a sweetheart to her.
Then in early March I messaged and called her on her mobile for 2 days, but she did not respond at all. I got restless and wanted to know what happened. So after 2 days I decided to search for her office phone number through the Internet since I know her companys name. I called the office around lunch time, and the receptionist forwarded the call to her office desk. I was very happy to hear her voice and we just talked less than a minute because I did not want to bother her at work.
Then later at night, I managed to get her mobile but she was so super angry about the office call I made. She told me to never call her office again, and then later told me to stop calling her mobile and text her; in other words we should cut all communications. She threatened to report to the police if I ever contact her in any form.
I was so shocked by her behavior. I did not expect her to break up immediately just over an office phone call. I know she might want to separate office and private life, but she could have given me a warning and I will never call her office again. Mind you, I have sent her flowers to her office for her birthday and Valentines before and she was very happy. If she really wanted a separation between work and private life, she should be very mad about the flowers too.
I am so baffled. Is it just me or is she just being a drama queen? I have been apologizing a lot to her but nothing seems to work. After 3 months she finally accepted my apologies but is not willing to meet or contact me at all. What do you think? Any advice is greatly appreciated.