She's getting the child support and my child doesn't live with her...
I am court ordered to pay child support to the custodial mother of my child in New York... My child is now 17 years old and living with other relatives in the state of New Jersey (due to the mothers boyfriend that made my child need to leave the home and her mother let her leave.)...
I have continued payments to the mother and she has not sent any of the support to my child... and my child has now elected to terminate any contact with me and totally refuses to any communication...
This has been going on for the past 3 years... and the custodial parent has been threatening me with forcing my child to live back with her in a home in which she would not be wanted and neglected, if I went to the courts and advised the court that my child was no longer living with her...
Do I have any gounds to have this support terminated and is the custodial parent in any type of contempt for collecting the child support intended for my child that is not being sent to her?.