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  • Jul 10, 2011, 01:05 AM
    straham1111
    Please help!! Is my girlfriend bi?
    Okk... so here goes...

    I've been with my girl for almost a year now. Yes, I'll say it - I rock her world in bed. However, her sexual past is quite extreme and I've begun to be obsessed that she may be bi - and that scares me. She has been raped twice. Had sex with a bunch of dudes. On the bi sidem her Facebook is littered with pictures of her and one of her best friends in various sexy poses (on top of each other) sticking each others faces in each others shirt... etc...

    Recently, we had sex and while I was slowly pounding her, I was talking dirty to her. I was describing her and her friend (I just described but didn't say names) doing dirty things to each other. She came like she's never come before. I tried it two days in a row and both times she was squirting all over the ****ing place. Her friend is black and my girlfriend is asian. I was tripping out because I kind of have this gut that she's messed around before but she swears she hasn't. I'm kind of paranoid. Any help insight would be awesome. I'm wondering if her rape experiences may have influenced this or if she even is bi.

    Let me also add... when we go to clubs she dances on girls really provocatively. Is there anyway to approach this topic with her? Any suggestions?
  • Jul 10, 2011, 05:58 AM
    amicon

    Has she had therapy to help her deal with the rapes?
  • Jul 10, 2011, 02:59 PM
    straham1111
    Comment on amicon's post
    No she hasn't...
  • Jul 10, 2011, 03:41 PM
    Fr_Chuck

    First so she is bi, that is no license to have sex with others, if you and her are in a committed relationship, then you and her are true to each other, what she did or did not do before should not be a concern.

    If he is cheating on your now that is a concern.
  • Jul 10, 2011, 04:10 PM
    talaniman

    I don't think you have a choice but to take her word for things, and trust her until you have FACTS to the contrary.

    You may be all worried, but obviously not worried enough to stop having sex.
  • Aug 21, 2011, 10:29 PM
    KatPee29
    You have nothing to stress about; I am not bi :)

    You're wonderful and I wouldn't trade you for the world!
  • Aug 22, 2011, 09:15 AM
    talaniman
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by KatPee29 View Post
    You have nothing to stress about; I am not bi :)

    You're wonderful and I wouldn't trade you for the world!

    What are you his girl in question??

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