My ex of 6 years dumped me August 2010 because he felt like he could not make me happy anymore... thats what he claimed.. (I had a very rough year that strained our relationship but I was still devastated and heartbroken)... he immediately started dating someone else and then got engaged in 6 months... March 2011... mind you that he had cheated on her the whole 6 months they dated... now... they are set to be married in Nov 2011 and he is now telling me that he doesn't now why he even proposed to her and he wish he would have just married me. He said that he is still in love with me and he is confused... I still love him very much too.. I know I need to stop talking to him but every time I've tried he has found a way to contact me whether its coming to my house or talking to me through other people... Do yal think his relationship will last?

No, how can it, as he is a liar and cheater and you are the fool who falls for his crap, and allow his bad behavior.

Wake up and stop falling for any of his crap, and stop letting him make you so foolish. You know better.

No wonder you fall for his dumb shat, because you cannot stand for yourself.

Hello... has the light bulb gone off yet, or must you hear more harshness to see you should be as mad at him for disrespecting your A$$, as you are at me for telling the blunt truth.

That's how you handle him, with anger so you can tell him to leave you alone with his lying cheating a$$!! Tell that to the people he speaks to you through also. Curse him, as I have cursed YOU!!

My question back to you is --Why would you give a rats one way or another--Remember he is the same jerk off who dumped you. The same jerk to still continues to contact you every time he needs an ego boost. You need to be VERY thankful you didn't get stuck with him as a husband. Don't you think its time to stop letting him fall back on you every time he needs to have some re-assurance!!

He's a liar and a cheat-let's hope his fiancée realises this before it's too late.

Have nothing more to do with him.

Of course he current relationship will not last and for her sake you should hope they don't get married.

But then you don't need him back either. That would be just silly. So if "others" try and talk to you about him, tell them to >>>>>> and you don't want to hear about the jerk. If he comes to your home, don't open the door, tell him to leave and call the police if he don't.

He can say whatever he wants.

Not sure why you are even available to listen.

He cheated, dumped you and got engaged.

What else more do you need?

What's the question again?



"I still love him very much too"

Why? That's the REAL question.

This has bad written all over it. Men don't do this, boys do. His logic is so messed up. Left you because he thought he couldn't make you happy, got engaged to some other woman and is cheating on her, and is now professing his undying love to you? If he's so unhappy with her why is he still there? He is doing wrong to you and his bride to be and he's not going to stop. He's been shown there are no repercussions for his bad behavior. This is emotional infidelity, don't get suckered into being the other woman. Walk away.