I have a five year old daughter wiith an x who I was not married to I receive state disability for her from the father but he has dometic violense charged with a deadly wepon on his past with me plus two other charges. I want full custody with no visit rights but still rrecieve ssd for her can I do that or do I already hv that if not wwhats my most quick easiest way to get full custdoy before the restraing order is up