I'm 26 years old and engaged to a wonderful man. I lost my virginity when I was 19. And all through my sexual experiences of trying different positions and techniques with different men I was never able to have a orgasm through intercourse. Until I met my finacee that is. We have been together for almost 4 years now. I have always wondered why is it that I haven't been able to orgasm with any other partners? And why is the only way that I can experoence an orgasm with my fiancée is by being on top? And last question I promise is why do we have so many orgasims?

A big part of being able to enjoy an orgasm is being able to relax. Maybe you're more relaxed with him?
Women can have 3 different kinds of orgasms actually. One is from clitoris stimulation, "g-spot" stimulation, and one from stimulating both at the same time. I know more of what happens than why, but hey, if you're lucky enough to have so many different kinds of pleasures, why question it? :P

Well I don't mean the different kinds as so much about the types of orgasims. Like for exsample I have ones that make me crave ice cream, cry, ones that like to never stop and make me sleepy. And trust me I'm not complaining. Before I met him I thought I was never going to get to that arousing moment in my life with a man. The only way I could before I met him was by masturbating.

And what about the other questions?

MOST women NEVER have an orgasm from intercourse--and when they do, they're on top.

It has to do with the PHYSICAL build of women. All of the nerve endings that lead to orgasm are generally located in the clitoris, not the vagina.

My wife always has to be on top to climax. We are all different and,so just relax and enjoy because nothing is wrong. You probably never climaxed before because of being nervous or you feel much more for this man.