Why is it I can't *** in my wife's mouth during oral sex... yet back in the day I could do it in any of my girlfriends mouths without any problems? My wife tries so hard to get me to *** in her mouth... she even begs me to, but it just isn't happening for me! When she gives me hand jobs; no problem; but when she gives me a blow job, big problem!

How old are the both of you?

The keyword here is girlfriend and wife.

We need ages before we can answer due to posting restrictions. Besides ages do affect relevant advice as well.

Well, he's married so I'm going to jump in and assume he's of age. Bracing myself -

Anyway, wouldn't one solution be to use her hands until the point of no return and then use her mouth?

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