I'm 11 years old. There is this guy who is 15 and he told my brother I was hot. But he didn't know that I was 4 years younger than him!(I look older for my age people think I'm like 14!) I don't know if he still likes me or is over me because I'm to young. Do you think its OK do date someone 4 years older than u? Help me!

No I don't think its okay for an 11 year old to date a 15 year old, but if you have doubts, ask your mom, because she is the one you answer to.

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iluvsoccer14 does not find this helpful : if I like someone they can be any age

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You can like whomever you want, but your mama is the one who can tell you who to date, and when you can date, RIGHT!!

I think it is NOT okay for an 11 year old to date a 15 year old. The older you get, the less an age difference matters, but at your age, that big of a gap is NOT okay. Say you were a 30 year old trying to date a 34 year old, that's much different, and is okay. Dating in general at your age is NOT okay.

Be friends. You can save all the complications of dating and relationships and love after 18.
To answer your question, it is not OK.

No 11 year old should be "hot" anything, and no a 15 year old has no business dating or thinking of dating a 11 year old child.