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  • Jul 6, 2011, 10:35 AM
    mystic857
    We both like each other, but he hasn't asked me out yet
    Ok. So I REALLY like this guy and he told me he likes me too. We've done things a boyfriend and girlfriend would do. (like, I've met his parents, we've gone to movies, out to eat, and other things... ) But he hasn't asked me out. I don't know what to do. He's not a shy guy whatsoever. To be honest, he's very straightforward. And he knows I'd say yes. What do I do?
  • Jul 7, 2011, 09:57 AM
    ken007nielsen
    Ask you out? Doesent seem like he has too, since you went out for dinner movies and such..

    Or do you mean why he asked you to be his girlfriend yet?

    If so, only he knows we can only speculate.
  • Jul 7, 2011, 10:28 AM
    southamerica

    Tell him your intentions, and ask him if he'll reciprocate. That's what I've done in the past and it works just fine.

    For example-
    "I just want you to know that I wouldn't go out on a date with anyone else. It would make me uncomfortable to learn if you went on a date with someone else. Would you like to be exclusive?"
  • Jul 8, 2011, 09:39 AM
    0rphan
    I'd say he already considers you to be his girlfriend, so he isn't going to ask something he already thinks you are.

    The only thing you need is clarification of it.

    Next time you go out, whether it's a film or a meal etc... wait for the right moment then simply say," are we boy and girlfriend now or just friends?", then smile and wait for a reply... hopefully it's the right one.

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