Around 2 weeks ago was my best mates party as she turning 14 her boyfriend was there she been with him for around 1 year and a half I feel so bad and I feel like a dirty slag . I want to tell her because she my best mate and lying to her will make things worse . But her boyfriend telling me that I the one he wants to be with and I the one he loves olny thing is I don't love him what happened was a drunken mistake I don't know where to turn 2!!

So, you are 14, getting drunk, sleeping with your friend's boyfriend AND you already have a child of your own? Not to mention the 21 year old pedophile you are seeing.

Doesn't this make you think about the path you are following? This is not how good girls behave.

I usually steer clear of these threads, but wow! You have a lot going on for a 14 year old! What happened to the days when 14 year olds were playing video games, not playing house and sleeping with older men?? How old is your daughter? What are your parents saying about all of this? I think you should turn to a school counselor or a parent and tell them you have a serios problem. You need counseling. At 14 you should not be getting drunk, sleeping around and having babies. Not to mention the 21 year old pedophile you keep in your life. Listen to these words. If you keep a 21 year old man in yours and your daughter's life, what kind of attention do you think she will start paying her when she turns the "right" age.

Well everyone does it these days no one plays video games anymore that to boring LOOL! And my daughter 7 and half weeks and my parents don't know well basically don't care there to busy getting pissed to realise and they let some them stay my house so you no . I been counciling after birth my babyy girl went 2 weeks didn't help me so I quit . I can't talk to my mum or anyone there t busy for me these days and well I leart from my mum going out getting drunk and everything . And yes your right I do keep the 21 year old pedophile in my life because to hard let him walk out . And well I wouldn't bring her up sleep with older men or anyhting

And yes J9 I go out get pissed , sleep best mates boyfriend have a daughter and in love with a 21 year old maybe it not the right path but one I going down and GOOD GIRL don't even know the meaning of that

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Originally Posted by Babygirlx

Well everyone does it these days

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That's where you are wrong. I know plenty of girls who are your age who do not go out get drunk, sleep with their friends' boyfriends OR have a child.

Well from where I from you don't in Gillingham where live everyone has baby everyone shares there boyfriends and everyone gets pissed anddd some people take drugs way I been brought up I Don't KNOW WHAT GOOD IS AND THE WAY MY LIFE GOING I NEVER FIND OUT !

Good is what you doing in your course! Good is looking after only you and your girl. You're doing good! Just don't go off track, right now your swerving off track.

I do look after my girl she my world but I not looking after myself and I don't see I doing good sometimes I see I letting her down and I know swering right down hill :))