My boyfriend of 2 years broke up with me amonth ago but still calls me and want to see me. When I do see him he acts distant and cold towards me. He will call me and ask me what 's new etc making small talk. I saw him tonight and he acted as if I was a stranger. He was polite but he seems to have turned off his emotions towards me.
OK I can accept that but why does he call me at all.
He also called me last week to invite me to his birthday party this weekend. Im not sure if I should go. I still care about him a lot I love him still. I want to get back together with him but I do nt see how given my present situation. If he broke up and said his feelings have changed then why call at all?
Our relationship broke up because I had to move back into my ex husbands house to look after him after serious brain trauma. And permanent brain damage. What could I have done. Left someone to die. So after I moved back in to take care of ex husband
Things between boyfriend and started their downhill course.
I and all friends who know situation Im living tell me I am doing the right thing to help someone out. He has never set foot here to see me. He wanted me to always go to his house.
What should I do? Tell him to leave me alone or continue to see him as a friend.
Please any suggestions welcome
Thanks

He is no friend, so why even be available for his immature nonsense.

Good luck with caring for your ex, a real friend would support you. I hope you find a real friend that does.

Thank You for the feed back. You are right he is not even a friend anymore. I do not contact him but he calls me. What should I do completely ignore him? Change my phone number ? I don't know, the problem is that I still care about him a lot. Our relationship was good before all this happened.

It did happen, and it was a deal breaker, so you really need to leave him alone, and not be available at all. Tell him to leave you alone and, be willing to make that point with more drastic actions if necessary.

He made the decision to break up with you.

That means that he no longer wants a relationship with you.

Whatever the circumstances or reasons.

Don't respond ever. And yes block his numbers, emails, whatever.

He no longer deserves your time. Period.