I really like this girl and she knows it but she doesn't like me back. I'm sort of in the friend zone and I wanta know how to get out of the friend zone and get her to like me. It hurts worse and worse every day from being alone. Help. Please.

First thing, you don't zero in on just one girl, especially one who doesn't like you back. You date a whole bunch of them and get to be friends with them. Eventually you will connect with one or maybe even two.

You just step back and, stop trying so hard to make her like you, by spending less time initiating contact with her. You be less available, and busy with other people, places, and things that make you happy. You stop chasing her, because you can't make her do anything. Its you hurting yourself, trying to influence her, so just stop.

I know, not what you want to hear, but much better than being the fool trying to impress a female, that ain't into you. You know this so stop wasting time trying to change her mind. Be a friend, but don't let her be your only friend, or monopolize your time with just being her friend.

I know it hurts to be alone, so don't be. Build a life that you enjoy, and attract people who want to share it with you. Then you can enjoy being single and all the options and opportunities that single people have. Don't waste that opportunity by being stuck on someone that's not as stuck on you. I can tell you from experience, that ain't no fun at all, plus you never know when a friend of a friend might meet your fancy, and you share some good times for a while.

So what's wrong with friend zone, nothing! Never know when a friend might take a second look, a deeper one, and surprise you out of the blue, because nothing is more attractive than a happy well balanced confident friend to have fun with. Like I said, the more friends, the better. Its part of a balanced social life, that keeps you from being alone, and hurting.

You can't change her mind, just talk to her more , be friends with her for the time. It could become more than that. You have to learn to live your life to the fullest and don't wait around if you really want to be with her ask her out, if she says no then maybe its time to move on I know its not easy but its what you might have to do. But one thing you never want to do is stop being a friend. I know its hard to be alone but that right person will come just injoy being you for now.