I been with this girl for 10 months she hasn't really wanted to talk to me but, when she did it was on rare occasions like she just passes me and says hi and bye (***). When she hasn't been talking to me she has been spending loads of time with my best friend (her ex). It's been going on more and more. Then one day when I never saw her, my cousin phoned me and said he saw them kissing in public (again ***). And now she spend less time with me everyday and she is less interested in me. Now I am starting to like my ex (her friend) over again but, the thing is if I break up with my current GF, everyone will be like man why did you do that? If I leave it, it will just feel wrong and, I can't cheat on them. What should I do? Please help.

You talk to your so called best friend and your girl, get facts, and act accordingly. Best friends don't kiss their best friends girl, nor do girlfriend kiss on your best friend exes, or NOT.

If they have indeed been carrying on in public, then you dump her and get a better friend. Plain and simple. She doesn't sound like a great girlfriend any way, and maybe she should be dumped because of that alone.

Get the facts first, then do what you got to do, no matter what others say or think because you look foolish being played a fool.

Thanks for answering but now something wired has happened. My ex girlfriend has just said that she still has a little feelings for me and I said I still have a little feelings for her to(just because of my so called friend what should I do now

So you've basically swapped girlfriends and now regret it? Doesn't sound like a good friendship to me if you're both willing to date the others ex partner.

Yh basically but but he never had a girlfriend for 3 years so now he wants one badly

How old are you guys??

Like me and ma so called girlfriend and ex r 16 the so called friend is 15

Set things straight with your girlfriend and HER ex first. Talk to your girlfriend, see if everything was just hearsay or the truth. Break it up if you have to, then think about YOUR ex. It is like just because your girlfriend is so so, you are giving second thoughts on your ex, doesn't sound good at all. Any girl in that place deserves better.

Thanks but I already tried and nothing came up they both lied I'm going to wait for a break up or do it myself but den I'm still confused

If you have hard proof, and your girlfriend is cheating on you, don't worry about what others will say. Let them say whatever they want. In a month or two, people will forget you, or what happened. That is for sure. So initiate the break up by yourself. It if for the good of both parties. You cannot continue with this for long. You cannot blame her too, if that is her decision, so be it.
PS: Wait until you find the real love. Never, out of lonliness, try to find a girl.

Ill try but if I can't forgive my friend or my so called girlfriend

OK cool. Try your best. And if you can't forgive your friend or your girlfriend, then? Forgive them, let them do anything. Once you do it, you go through a level up. And it will feel like, stooping down to do something against them. Good luck

K ill try but my so called girlfriend and friend won't admit anything and will just keep saying no if I keep on saying up front

Friend or g/f, makes no difference, just don't be around people you don't trust, maybe that's the problem, you need better friends, period.