I'm 14 and I really need help figuring something out, I've asked my friends but they really aren't much help and I just don't think they quite understand how I feel. I want to know if it's just my nerves about being in a serious relationship or if I just don't really like the guy I'm with. I liked this guy (my current bf) for a long time... even while I was still with my ex... but as soon as I started going out with him I started really liking this guy in my biology class... I've known the guy for years and I had a huge crush on him when I was younger and when we ended up in biology together it was the first time in two years that I'd spoken to him and I realised how much I missed him, and liked him. We were really good friends before and we're starting to get close again and I'm not sure if I really like him of if I just love spending time with him. I'd love to tell him how I feel but I'm not even sure about how I feel myself yet and I don't want to mess things up with my boyfriend, who I love to pieces, over a crush, but it's killing me inside and a part of me feels like it could be more than a crush. I know the guy likes me because he said so but I just don't know what to do.

Try making a list. Yah, it sounds stupid, but it might work. Put all the things you like about one guy in a row then the things about the other guy in another row. Then all the things you don't like about each of them in rows. Then you can compare them.

Also, if you end up thinking you like your crush more, make sure he's interested. You don't want to dump your boyfriend and relise your crush doesn't want to have a relationship.

There's also a saying, 'If you fall in love with two people, pick the second one. Cause if you really loved the first one you wouldn't have fallen in love with someone else.